# Drive 4 — LOVE : Intimacy vs Isolation >[!Info] >Inherited from our fourth living ancestor, mammals, we get the need to be LOVED. Not just be fed, or comfortable, or respected, but for our emotions to be felt by others, mirrored in them. To be attended to, and attuned to emotionally. To be seen, not physically, but with the heart of another. To feel the feeling of being felt. # Overview | Ancestor Species | [[4 - Mammals\|Mammal]] | | ------------------------ | ---------------------------------- | | **Emerged in Evolution** | ~200 Million Years Ago | | **Associated Location** | [[4 · 💚 · Heart]] | | **Alternative Names** | Intimacy, Romance, Cared For, Felt | # Feeling When Satisfied - Being special - Heat full - Attuned to, cared for - Understood, being felt - Resonating - Closeness - Emotional safety # Feeling When Deficient - Lonely - Detached - Cold heart - Abandoned, left behind - No one cares - Different wavelengths